Everyone has a network of friends, and that network of friends either hangs out at a bar, goes to a club, or is part of “the community.” The different ways these people get together are important for some people, because if all they knew each other, or met at work, they could probably get ride of the “not in my scene” factor.
If you have been hanging out in a particular bar for a long time, you have probably noticed the same people a few times a week, or more. But for someone new who is trying to get out there and get some attention, your script needs to be carefully crafted to spin a particular message. If you want to start maximize your potential, start writing your original content.
The content you create needs to be enticing unaware
Example: “Hi! I am new in town, and was wondering if you had recommendations for a good place to eat?The one basic sense to remember when delivering copy like this is that your prospects need to have a reasonable amount of interest in you and your product. If you are offering something that your prospects have not heard before, it is likely that your prospective dates will be coming in fresh, and not having any preconceived notions about your proposal.
This will likely give your proposal the edge over a number of other qualified applicants. Good luck!”Once you have met, and can tell that person’s personality is in keeping with your criteria, you have a few days to construct your proposal. You should have several short or medium busty answers that will increase the anticipation and move you closer to a yes.
Here are some additional control tools to help you write your proposal: These tools will increase your chances of getting your proposal read carefully, and increase your chances of being approved.A Yes will make your prospect feel in control and that he or she has some decision making ability. A No, on the other hand, will reduce their decision making ability to zero.
A recommendation where the person attached to the offer (the owner) was the first to make the proposal. This is a powerful attraction feature, because it shows that the qualified individual was consulted. This offers repetition protection, as the qualifier (you) already has agreed (in advance) to the terms of the proposal.
“I would like to spend some time with you” is easier to say than asked.
“I want to spend some time with you” is easier to say than asked. My feeling is that adding the definite article (she) will tighten up the wording, making it more casual and “I’d like to spend some time with (them)”. Again, while the definite article (she) tightens the wording, the non-term (they) does the same, but with a softer tone.
To increase your chances of being granted an option is to show the person that you have choices. Nothing is more unattractive than a person who has not one iota of interest in you. Unless you intend to represent yourself as unreachable, you should state at the outset that you are free on the following day or evening to meet and be interviewed.
It also helps to add a whiff of adventure and intrigue
If the option that you want to be free on the following day or evening is not available, apologize and make a second request.. Just a suggestion.
One hesitating soul might note that it seems an odd consideration, dating and meeting together. But your aim is to get a living, right? Soante never intended for there to be a direct request, but it’s one that comes from a bit of a cold hard cash perspective. It’s OK to be open to “investing” a small amount of money in the potential of a relationship. Some money is an investment that can be made with less than doing nothing.
If you must invest a small amounts of money, do you mind a bit of an upfront payment to see your proposal accepted. Raise the stakes for a small fee that is not often visible in the context. (It would appear to me that this proves a bit of preparedness, in terms of finding a endurable provider rather than just throwing money at the end of the indirect qualification).
Now, you don’t have to write a quench or hand over a promissory note. But your proposition should have enough merit that anybody is willing to invest a small amount in the possibility of a yes. A well thought out proposition that includes a note that committing to it is a matter of financial commitment to you (or him), cannot go wrong. Being economical is always a good thing.