What to Do on the First Date
Most women fear the first date, but it should be something fun. It’s a chance to see where a guy takes you, and how he treats you. You can also telegraph that you’re casual, and invite him to check out your personality. A woman always has the upper hand when it comes to who pays for the date, but you shouldn’t be too worried about that.
If the guy is doing a overeating you, don’t feel guilty because he doesn’t call you for two days, and then tries to set you up with a date. A man treats a woman as he wishes to be treated. If he’s like a boss around you, he’ll let you have a job just to be able to smile when he’s talking to you. Just because you don’t have a job, or any way to pay for school doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t go out and while away your time.
There’s no reason for you to be sitting at home in your sweats, eating take-out, watching movies and complaining about your FEELINGS. No one else wants to be there.You’re on a date; it means that you’re obtaining a chance to know the guy better. It’s a way for you and your man to determine your compatibility.
Even if you’re both youthful, and it’s hard to concentrate on anything else because of your nervousness and excitement – you must still put your best foot forward. It will only make the date go smoothly, and you’ll learn some important things about your man.Remember the things you talked about when you met him. Ask questions and share some of your own interests; but it will be really your eyes that will tell whether he is interested in you or not.
Don’t expect him to do the talking
Don’t be too offended if the man who ask for your hand in marriage isn’t a good sport. Being a lifelong bachelor doesn’t mean you have to walk all over him. Don’t do things that would only end up hurting his feeling. Just be careful with words, make sure you mean every word.List the qualities that you look for in a partner, not only in looks but also in the things he does. Put it all down on a piece of paper then compare the things you’ve written.
If you’ve written “Ask me for marriage” on your hand, this shouldn’t be cause for alarm. The truth is that your match should love you for who you are.If this is your first date, remember that it’s just a date no matter how hard you try to be impressive. Expect no man, no matter how amazing he looks, to behave or talk like a perfect gentleman. If that’s possible, it’s possible that he won’t be your perfect man.
I have heard of people making lasting relationships with their first date
Normally, they weren’t very serious, and they eventually realized their initial impressions were flawed. These people also realized that initially, little did they know about this person, and it wasn’t until they got to know him that they realized how special, wonderful, and unique they were to each other.
They did things on their first date that turned out to be wonderful for them. Perhaps these people took notes during the date so that they could continue the conversation, or perhaps they made sure that this person knows that they are not only with them for the date but also for the long-term. Such people aren’t particularly good, and sometimes they are lucky. They will encounter some difficulties along the way but those can be overcome by the love they have for each other.