Guys are generally not direct. It is a male preserve that they prefer to be non-committal. However, with women it changes. You want to know if the guy you are in love with, really cares about you. These tips will help you identify if he is in love with you.
You count on himWhen you need him around, you go to him. If you don’t matter to him and he is reciprocating by spending time with you, you can safely say that he really cares about you. If you find that after making an effort you cannot think of anything you want to do and his absence has a considerable impact on your life, you can say that perhaps there is more going on than just care for you.
He listens to youA guy who is in love with his girl will make sure that he understands her and be able to listen to whatever she has to say. If you find yourself discussing your problems with him and he listens with patience and care then he loves you.
His gifts speak for themselvesSome guys are prodigious giver but some could lack a gift aspect to their personality. While his presents to you are thoughtful and warm, you need to make sure that they are not excessive. Be careful of tipsy guys that love to give you gifts and you could find yourself taken on a rollercoaster ride of feelings.
He makes time for youA person in love with his girl will make sure that he has spare time for her. Ask you to meet him and he finds time to arrange some meeting with you. If you find yourself calling him to fix a date and not meeting him till the date itself, you have a non-committal relationship.
He cares if he is open about his future plansAfter the initial head’s up that he gives, you need to know if he sees you as a part of his future and if he is planning on telling you that he has plans for life other than the next date. He needs to be comfortable about sharing his life with you, and is not in his vigour to simply date you.
He is encouraging you to pursue your dreamsWhen a guy is in love with a girl he is being encouraging and supportive by helping you to achieve your dreams. He will be your engine that pushes you to graduate, and will ensure that you excel in your studies. Look for signs in his actions and in his words that shows that he is doing all this because he loves you.
He wants you to be happyIf you are in a relationship nothing actually goes your way when you actually care for each other. So a guy in love will make sure that he pleases you and that you are generally fed up of being miserable or sad. He wants you to be happy in every way, so that he can be himself to be happy.
He wants to be your knight in shining armorAlthough men are in essence as good buddies they still like to play the knight in shining armor and protect their damsel in times of need. If you find your guy being chivalrous and good to you in all situations – being a knight in shining armor then you are lucky. He is in love with you.
He wants to always be by your sideA man in love is quite possessive about you. You don’t even need to ask him over for anything or to check if he is in love because he will always be there to help you out and to make you feel good. He plays your role to your tee and does all this as a true gentleman because he cares for you.