Texting has become such an everyday part of life that it is no longer considered strange to text a girl. Since most girls are fairly new to texting, finding out what your texting standards should be sending a girl can be a little tricky. You don’t want to come off as being over-eager, yet you also don’t want to come off as boring, so where can you find a good place to send a text to a girl? Here are my suggestions.
Create a mysterious feeling
By creating a mysterious feeling through your text messages, you will have girls wondering if you’re into them. This will get your conversations started and build tons of attraction. You want to keep your texts short-and-sweet. This will keep her questions flowing and will make her more interested. If you come off as too eager, you could blow your chances with her.
You can get a girl very interested with your text messages by sending her a text that makes her feel good about herself. You can do this by complimenting her. All you want to do is give her an honest compliment. You are texting “hello” and “good ” not “oh Wow! I’m really attractive.” So if your text says, ” refreshed my mary jane’s drink,” It probably isn’t a good idea to send that one. What you can do is say something like this, ” refreshed my mary jane’s drink for me. What does that mean?”
What this does is make her feel good about herself and subconsciously connects that with seeing you and being attracted to you. If your text says, “I just met your twin” or “did your parents get you from catching your little tricks last weekend” your text is simply humor (that would be bad if your lucky) but it shows you are creative and have a sense of humor. This is very attractive and will catch their attention. It wouldn’t be bad to send a text saying, “I saw something on the news and it reminded me of you. Wanna go catch a movie?”
Create some mystery
This leads into the next tip. You should create some mystery about yourself. By not spilling your cards right away and only letting her in on a little bit as to what you are like and what your interests are. She will have to continue to ask you questions if she is interested in talking to you. Not only will this bring about more attraction but she will feel like she needs to know more to get to see you again. A text message is an easy, effective way to create that sense of mystery.
Include a picture
When you are text flirting and she sends you one of her pictures, you should be able to attach it to the end of your text. This seems silly to us, but a picture makes a difference to a lot of people. She will be able to see what you are writing and think about you, and at the same time be attached to your communication because the picture adds an extra element of interest. So include a picture of you doing something cool, as long as it’s neat.
You should also include a picture of yourself so girls can see the passion you exude in your text messages. Use the power of smiling and eye contact as you write the messages, as well. These are believed to actually make you more attractive to girls, so be careful to avoid a serious face brush with the commands from your command line. No point in making a good impression if you’re just going to provocation her with your text charms. courtesy and a big smile.